Ah, happiness—the elusive unicorn we’re all chasing. Is it a cozy blanket on a chilly evening? A promotion at work? Or that last slice of pizza no one dares to touch at the party? (Let’s be honest, it’s all three.) But what exactly is happiness, and why does it feel like we’re all stuck in a game of hide-and-seek with it? Let’s dive into this question from both scientific and philosophical perspectives—and yes, we’ll keep it fun because who needs another snooze-fest article?

Happiness, According to Science: Chemicals, Wires, and
Sparks

Scientists say happiness is a mix of neurochemicals that make your brain throw a little party. Meet the stars of the show:
- Dopamine: The “woohoo!” hormone that lights up when you achieve something, like finally finishing that Netflix series.
- Serotonin: The mood stabilizer that whispers, “Hey, life’s not so bad.”
- Oxytocin: The cuddle hormone. Get a hug, pet your dog, or hold hands—bam! Oxytocin overload.
- Endorphins: The body’s natural painkillers. Ever laugh so hard your stomach hurts? Thank these little guys.
But here’s the kicker—happiness isn’t just about chemicals. Research shows it’s also influenced by genetics, environment, and habits. In fact, a famous study by Lyubomirsky, Sheldon, and Schkade (2005) suggests that happiness is 50% genetic, 10% circumstantial, and 40% within our control. Yes, you heard that right—you’re halfway born this way, Lady Gaga style, but you still have a lot of say in the matter.

Philosophy’s Take on Happiness: To Be or Not to
Be (Happy)
Philosophers have been mulling over happiness for centuries, and they have some pretty profound thoughts—though sometimes they also sound like your wise-but-slightly-annoying friend.
- Aristotle believed in “eudaimonia,” which translates to human flourishing. He argued that true happiness comes from living virtuously and fulfilling your potential. So, no, binge-watching cat videos doesn’t count (sorry).
- Epicurus thought happiness was all about simple pleasures—friends, freedom, and reflection. Basically, he was Team Minimalism before it was cool.
- Nietzsche, on the other hand, believed happiness wasn’t the goal at all. He argued that struggle and overcoming challenges bring deeper satisfaction. (This guy would definitely roll his eyes at your “Live, Laugh, Love” wall decor.)
Why Do We Get It Wrong?
Here’s where things get spicy: society loves to sell us the wrong idea of happiness.
- Myth 1: Happiness = Success. Nope. You can have the biggest house on the block and still feel like a raccoon rummaging through emotional garbage.
- Myth 2: Happiness is a destination. Wrong again. Happiness isn’t at the end of a rainbow; it’s scattered throughout the journey, like breadcrumbs.
- Myth 3: Stuff = Happiness. Sure, that new iPhone feels amazing for a week, but after that? Meh. Studies show experiences, not material goods, bring longer-lasting joy (Gilovich & Kumar, 2015).
So, What’s the Secret Sauce?

You’re probably thinking, “Okay, smartypants, what’s the actual formula for happiness?” Well, here’s what science and philosophy agree on:
- Connection: Strong relationships are the foundation of happiness. Loneliness, on the other hand, is a happiness killer (Holt-Lunstad et al., 2010).
- Gratitude: Practicing gratitude rewires your brain for positivity. It’s like a free mental upgrade—no subscription required.
- Purpose: Knowing your “why” gives life meaning. It could be raising a family, writing a novel, or just being the best darn gardener in your neighborhood.
- Mindfulness: Being present, instead of living in the “what ifs” or “if onlys,” reduces stress and boosts joy.
- Laughter: Never underestimate the power of a good laugh—preferably at yourself.
- PS: I love dancing. That’s where my happiness is and keeping check on dopamine’s level oh but finishing my task at time is also important so it goes hand in hand.
A Quick Reality Check
Let’s face it, life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes it’s thunderstorms and burnt toast. And that’s okay. True happiness isn’t about avoiding pain; it’s about weathering the storm and learning to dance in the rain. (Yes, I’m throwing in a cliché because it’s true!)
Final Thought: Choose Your Own Adventure
So, next time someone asks, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” think beyond the job title. Imagine the kind of person you want to be. Do you want to be compassionate? Resilient? Funny? (Please say yes to funny.) Happiness isn’t a checklist; it’s a way of being.
And if you’re still unsure, don’t worry. Happiness is a lifelong experiment, and you’re the mad scientist in charge. So grab your goggles, mix some chemicals (metaphorically, please), and start crafting your personal happiness potion.
What’s Next in the Happiness Series?
Now that we’ve dipped our toes into understanding happiness and explored tips to infuse joy into everyday life, let’s ask the big question: Are we chasing happiness the wrong way?
In the next article of this series, we’ll unravel the fascinating science and psychology of “The Happiness Trap.” Why do we sometimes feel unfulfilled even after achieving our goals? Are we sabotaging our own happiness without realizing it? And how can we escape this cycle to embrace true, lasting joy?
Stay tuned, because the answers might surprise you—and possibly change the way you approach life forever — If you believe and try to make it a lifestyle!
Your Turn

Got a happiness hack, story, or existential rant? Share it! Drop your thoughts in the comments or email us at contact@divinelightenergyworks.com. We’re all in this rollercoaster of life together, so let’s make it a ride worth screaming about—in a good way, of course.
Until next time, remember: Happiness isn’t just a destination—it’s the journey.
References:
- Lyubomirsky, S., Sheldon, K. M., & Schkade, D. (2005). Pursuing happiness: The architecture of sustainable change. Review of General Psychology, 9(2), 111–131.
- Gilovich, T., & Kumar, A. (2015). We’ll always have Paris: The hedonic payoffs of experiential over material purchases. Journal of Consumer Research, 42(1), 58-75.
- Holt-Lunstad, J., Smith, T. B., & Layton, J. B. (2010). Social relationships and mortality risk: A meta-analytic review. PLOS Medicine, 7(7), e1000316.